It’s natural to be down in the dumps every once in a while. Life can be stressful, chaotic and overwhelming. And once a bad mood hits, it can set the tone for your whole day.
It’s so much more rewarding for you – and those around you – to be in a good mood. Having a positive outlook can even be beneficial to your health.
Here are 12 ways you can boost your mood:
Take a break
If a particular task or situation is frustrating you, take a break from it for a few minutes before it puts in you in a bad mood. I often find myself stuck on a task while I’m working. Rather than sit and stew about it and get frustrated, it’s better to step away and get a drink or walk around. I might switch gears and take care of a quick task for a few minutes and then go back to what I was stuck on. Taking a break can head off a bad mood before it can set in.
Focus on the good
It’s easy to get sucked into negative thoughts. If you find yourself dwelling on the bad things, give yourself a mental kick in the behind and focus on what is good in your life. When I find myself obsessing about some small negative detail, I think about all the important things. I have a husband who loves me, three healthy, fairly well-adjusted kids, a roof over my head and food in the refrigerator. How silly is it to feel down about being passed over for a freelance job or having a minor argument with a friend?
Talk to a friend
I have a great friend who lets me call her up and vent about whatever is weighing on my mind and bringing down my mood. And, she knows she can call me up and do the same. Just telling someone your troubles and having them listen to you can lift your spirits. Your friends can help keep you healthy, too.
I know, if you’re already in a bad mood, do you really want to exercise? Yet, exercising does seem to boost my mood. It may just be that I am proud of myself for actually doing it. However, part of what makes you feel good during and after you exercise is increasing your body temperature. You release beta-endorphins which cause you to feel relaxed. Besides, exercise is good for you!
Listen to music
Jamming to some good tunes can help release feel-good chemicals in your brain, too. Listen to music while you work or do household chores. Or, crank it up loud and dance with your friends or family.
Get plenty of rest
Lack of sleep makes me cranky – and I am more likely to have a short fuse and have my mood turn sour more quickly. Keeping to a regular sleep schedule can improve your mood, fight the winter blues and help you sleep through the night and wake up rested. I know I have had enough sleep if I can wake up in the morning without the alarm.
If you are feeling low, try increasing your water intake. Not drinking enough water can make you dehydrated and can lead to a feeling of fatigue or lack of energy. In addition, water has many other health benefits.
Have a healthy snack
When I get hungry, my energy level drops off and my mood can dip. It’s okay to have a healthy, higher carb snack that will help you produce serotonin and elevate your mood. Be sure to avoid the sugary snacks that can actually make you feel good but then cause you to crash later.
Sunlight is nature’s mood booster. Get outside and take a walk in your neighborhood. Check out the flowers starting to bloom or watch the clouds changing shapes. Play catch, soccer, frisbee or tag with your kids. Or putter around in your yard or garden. Take a drive and simply enjoy nature.
Be liberal with your affection. Hug or kiss someone – preferably someone you know – every day to show them that you care. If there’s no one close by, call a friend or send a “thinking of you” email to someone you love. Not only will it boost your mood, but probably theirs as well.
As the saying goes, “Laughter is the best medicine.” If you’re feeling down, talk to a funny friend or co-worker, or watch a comedy show on TV. Laughing releases endorphins and helps improve your mood instantly.
Do something you love
Think of activities you love to do that tend to boost your mood. Maybe you like to sit down with a good book and drink a cup of coffee. You might enjoy cuddling with your kids, watching sports on TV, drawing, taking photos or playing with your cat or dog. No matter how small it may seem, taking the time to do something you love can make a big difference!
Do you have tips or tricks for boosting your mood? Tell us what works for you!